David was a passionate man. And when he should have been off to war his passions failed him with a glance. When he normally would have been "in the game" he was at home, on his roof, missing the action. His glance? Downward to a rooftop nearby where a young woman was bathing. Passion flares, David engages, the king is obeyed, pregnancy is discovered a couple weeks later.
David called the husband home, Uriah the Hittite (yes a foreigner!). He is a warrior of the highest caliber, totally dedicated to his king, his unit and the cause. He will not enjoy his wife until all his mates have returned. David's plan is thwarted, a new one hatches in the dark.
The letter Uriah takes back carries his doom. "Attack with Uriah in the front," it read, "then pull back from him." The order is followed, Uriah is killed in the battle, his wife mourns, finally after the appropriate time David "graciously" brings Bathsheba into the palace to join his harem. Problem solved.
Not really. God was watching and was displeased. God pulled away from David. David sensed the loss, but felt like it would be best for the world to just move along. Avoid the embarrassment.
Then Nathan, a trusted prophet, confronted David, saying "Why did you despise the word of the Lord by doing what is evil in his eyes? You struck down Uriah the Hittite with the sword and took his wife to be your own." I Samuel 12:9 a,b.
WAIT a minute there, Nathan! David at no time handled a sword! David did no killing this time! How can you pin this on David? How can God be so wrong?
And that my friends, is where we get it wrong. All of those self-justifying statements are technically true but factually a lie. The reality is in the last line of the verse: "You killed him with the sword of the Ammonites." I Samuel 12:9c. David is held to a personal accountability for the deceitful way he used the position Uriah was in. His coverup led to a valient story for Uriah's memory, but was a lie straight from the evil heart of David. There was enough plausible deniability for the plan to work, except for Nathan.
We live in a world that really doesn't believe the simple truth of the Word. Many "christians" ignore the plain reality of the social calls in Scriptures, writing them off to archaic times, or bad translations, or whatever. None of it fools God. And those who know better keep their mouths shut in order to keep the peace. How foolish! What a road to hell this is. To stand quiet is to use the sword of the media to kill the souls of misguided believers.
Here's my point: You and I are accountable to God who sees everything. All the good David did in his life didn't matter at this one point. God wants our best, he wanted David sexually happy so he gave him a wife, then allowed wives according to the custom. God saw David's heart and gave him a kingdom. God knows that certain actions bring irrepairable harm to relationships and tried to give us the rules of interpersonal engagement. God created shalom. That's why he is so angry when we screw it up.
And it really peaves hiim when we try to pass it off on someone else.
The Ammonites were simply the tool David used to commit murder to cover his adulterous night. Don't do the same with your sins, friend. Flee from the temptation to what God has already given you to satisfy that urge. Then you will save yourself a world of trouble from a God who sees all, and wants the shalom he offers to be a core of your being.
